How to tell if he is the one

Your caught up in the fairy tale stage of a relationship, and you start wondering “ Is this the one? Is this who God wants me to spend my life with?” We will all be in that position at one point or another, and I want to share with you some of the best advice I have ever found on how to know if this is who God sent for you!


Small disclaimer, Only God knows who you are meant to be with, so pray and talk to God about it and be sure to listen to him! This is just some of my favorite advice!

Replace his name into 1 Corinthians 13: 4-8

So for me, it Looked something like this

Donovan is patient, Donovan is kind. he does not envy, he does not boast, he is not proud. he does not dishonor others, he is not self-seeking, he is not easily angered, he keeps no record of wrongs. Donovan does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. He always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

This may be the best advice I have ever read! If your man doesn’t fit into this scripture, than that is not who God has planed for you! Our God is amazing, and all powerful, why would he give you anything less? Cause lets be real for a minute ladies, I can try this with some of my ex’s names and literally laugh. But with my husband, I tear up EVERY time. Cause I know, this is it!

He makes you feel beautiful

When you have found the one, he will make you feel beautiful on your worst days. I remember the day we came home from the hospital with our youngest, and the way he looked at me, made me feel like the most beautiful girl in the world. Despite the fact that I hadnt showered in about 4 days, had an extra 50 pounds, and was wearing hospital diapers (Where my mommas at! 😂 )

If he EVER makes you feel anything less, than he isnt the one!


How does he treat his momma?

I hate to break it to ya ladies, but if he cant show love and respect to the woman who brought him into this world, why would you ever think he would show you love and respect? Does he call his mother to check in? Visit her when she is sick? I dont mean he has to be obsessive, just a good son!

If you found this adive useful, please feel free to share & comment! Do you have any more advice for ladies wondering if there with their special someone? If so leave it below!

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